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Cake day: June 21st, 2023

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  • Get off the hamas propaganda man.

    I’m not sure how pointing out that most countries (representing the vast majority of the Earth’s population) recognise the state of Palestine is “Hamas propaganda” but here we find ourselves.

    One of us needs some introspection and it’s not me - it’s entirely possible to believe strongly that Israel has the right to defend itself, hope that Israel gets all the terrorists, be absolutely outraged by what happened on October 7th while also being utterly, utterly horrified by the killing of children in enormous numbers and the witnessing of many of the other horrors that have come out of this.

    Those things do not exclude each other in any way. They’re not even vaguely contradictory.




  • I also found the whole thing more than a bit distasteful tbh and I’m a huge supporter of Ukraine.

    Any lady that old is going to say whatever the hell she needs to to get soldiers (of any kind, I’d wager) away from her. Like there’s no question she considers Kursk to be Russian so any Ukrainian soldier trying to get her to say “oh yeah, the Ukrainian army is great” and she does it is down to the power imbalance.

    Like what was she supposed to say? “No lads, you fuck off home now” and hope for the best that she doesn’t get shot?




  • Ah that’s very kind and I’d love to take that level of credit but tbh it came from a moment of reflection doing one of those things that we all do when we’re young which is to over-examine our previous actions.

    Sometimes that’s really healthy and in adulthood absolutely imperative (edit: especially as a parent and I try so hard to be a good one) but when you’re young that looking back and cringing can lead to unkindness towards yourself when you’re still growing into who you’ll be.

    It was just a decent moment of cop on but it really did serve me well.

    Edit: And hey… Don’t stress too much about whether you’re an adult. As long as you’re trying to be a good person and reflect (not too harshly) on your mistakes then jog on, friend.

    I don’t actually mind if someone’s been a cunt to me as long as they reflect on it and say sorry. We’re all a cunt occasionally because life isn’t smooth. Sometimes external stressors or being caught up in a moment cause you to behave in ways that aren’t you and result in regret. That’s OK. It’s the reflection with intent to improve and communicating it to your loved ones, usually by saying sorry, that’s really, really important IMO.