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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • indomara@lemmy.worldtoClitoris@lemmynsfw.comNailing it
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    2 months ago

    When I was 18 or so I had a friend who later became a friend with benefits who had a clit like this. I was going through my slut phase and she felt comfortable to show me and was absolutely ashamed.

    I told her it was fine, better than fine! Sure it’s an outlier, but the variety in people’s junk is amazing. She insisted that she could never show anyone else, ever.

    Eventually I persuaded her to be less hung up about it, or anyone’s opinion about it. There are whole groups of people who would absolutely love it!

    Besides, she will never have trouble with someone not being able to find it, lol.





  • I missed the discussion on voting the other day it seems, but for what it’s worth, I like the voting system. In real life discussions happen in open air, and don’t hang there in posterity for people to stumble upon after. When we come to a consensus in conversation it is then left at that and we move on.

    When online, these discussions stay as they are, and I think voting gives a way of people to come to a consensus, to leave a mark upon the conversation such that the people who come behind understand how everyone felt about it.

    This is helpful I think, because it does not hide the down votes on nasty comments or ideas that hurt others.

    One of the most interesting and horrible things about the internet is that every village has a “crazy Bob” but because they were the minority the good of the people outnumbered their outlandish or hateful ideas.

    Now they can and do find each other online, forming a vocal and damaging minority. Without the majority able to show their dislike, human nature means more will fall in line with them and their ideals.