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Cake day: July 3rd, 2023

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  • You know best. The most important thing is that he does not control the outcomes. It is like me: I am working on it, but I completely lack self-control. I need to remain focused and do what I am told, no matter how desperate or how strong the temptation. One can only really work on being selfless, submissive, and obedient when there’s someone to recognize the need for improvement and to give orders that are unbiased, without regard for how desperate one is feeling at any given moment. A proper aub needs to be able to resist urges and perform for his domme according to her expectations. And when released, must clean up every drop without hesitation! You seem to be doing an amazing job with him…