WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]

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Cake day: May 6th, 2024

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  • Games is the largest games com by far in terms of posts and comments (150k comments and 15k post vs 71k comments and 3k posts on lemmy world…

    News has most posts than any other news and about as many comments as lemmyworld.

    Politics has the most posts of any politics coms, but far less comments than lemmyworld’s.

    History basically has no competitors (150k comments vs 7k for the next largest)

    Movies also has no competitors (75k comments vs 9k for the next largest).

    Videos has 56k comments vs lemmyworld’s 13k

    Music has 45k comments vs lemmyworld’s 6k

    Urbanism has 44k comments vs fuckcar’s 19k

    Granted, given Hexbear has been around for 4 years, the number of comments/posts is largely a side effect of age. But it also means calling them duplicates is probably misleading. OTOH, the main trans community there has been very active recently, dwarfing all other trans communities combined.







  • I never said i oposse it.

    Fooled me.

    Just that it sounds weird.

    Seems sus. But honestly its weird what people are about, so I wouldn’t really blame you for feeling that way. For example:

    “I doubt a label such as ‘vitamins for pregnant women’ would”

    Back when I was an egg (ie: I had no clue I was trans), I remember specifically disliking when my parents got me shampoo with the label “men” on it. I’ve gone without deodorant because the one I usually got was out of stock and the next closest thing (the only other “vegan” one I knew of) was labeled “men”. I’ve avoided multivitamins marketed for “men”. I had no clue why that bothered me… I assumed I was cis-by-default. It still makes no sense why I care about any of that. But I certainly don’t doubt there’s trans men who care about such labels, even if just a little. Its probably not in the top 100 in the list of priorities, but there’s no reason to waste even a sentence defending that kind of wording.

    Trans people already deal with enough BS elsewhere. No reason they should tolerate within their own communities. I’m currently banned from such a community I was a regular in and I’ll defend them banning me for what they thought I was saying (even though its based on a complete misunderstanding).