• Prime@lemmy.sdf.org
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    1 month ago

    Have you considered that he just forgot? People can not be fully attentive sometimes. He basically said thanks for reminding me and sorry about that. That’s ok in my book

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      1 month ago

      If you forget to be considerate, you are, in fact, being inconsiderate and people have a right to be annoyed by it.

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        1 month ago

        I’d say inconsiderate is more like ignoring a request to be considerate. Accidental inconsideration is normal and happens to everyon, especially neurodivergent people.

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          Considerate literally comes from considering (aka thinking of other people when making decisions), if you forget to take other people into account when making decisions, you’re being inconsiderate.

          It’s not complicated.